Today marks 10 years since T.J. took his life on a cold, dark December evening. 10 years. . .a decade. The dictionary defines a decade as any ten-year period, such as those of a person's life, or to refer to specific groupings of calendar years. Never did I think I’d use the term decade to define how long one of my children was gone from this earth. That is one of the conundrums of life. We really have no idea what the future may hold and what we can endure. I have learned so